I used to suck at love!
I was attracted to the wrong people,
jumped in way too quickly and then tried to change people so that they could be healthy for me. I had no idea how to ascertain and set my values, evaluate people’s true character or inspire them to truly fall in love with me.
My relationships were based on obsession, infatuation, struggles and drama!
And, at times … I would find myself spending months and even years alone because no one was turning up who I was even interested in. During these time periods, I would throw myself into other pursuits unhealthily - such as over-exercising, or workaholism.
Yes, there were some really lovely guys who crossed my path, but I felt zero attraction for them.